How to Support Siblings When a Child Has ADHD: A Guide for Families

When one of your children has ADHD, it often becomes the focus of daily family life. While your attention naturally shifts to managing their needs, it’s important to remember that their siblings are affected too. Brothers and sisters may feel overlooked, confused, or burdened by the dynamics at home. This guide offers supportive, practical strategies to help parents nurture all their children equally—promoting emotional balance, clear communication, and stronger family bonds

Common Question

Q: What’s the best way to support the siblings of a child with ADHD?
A: Make time for one-on-one connection, talk openly about emotions, explain ADHD in simple terms, and ensure all children feel equally valued and supported.

5 Ways to Support Siblings of Children with ADHD

1. Prioritise Individual Quality Time

Each child in your home deserves undivided attention. Scheduling 10–15 minutes daily with each sibling (even if it’s just a chat or a walk) helps prevent feelings of neglect or resentment.

Tip: Let your child decide how to spend this time — it gives them a sense of control and connection.

2. Create a Safe Space to Talk

Siblings may feel they can’t express negative emotions about their ADHD sibling. Encourage honest conversations and validate their feelings—without judgement.

Tip: Try gentle questions like:

• “What’s been on your mind lately?”
• “Is there anything that feels unfair at home?”

3. Help Them Understand ADHD

Kids often misunderstand the root of ADHD behaviours. Explaining ADHD in age-appropriate terms can help them develop empathy and reduce sibling tension.

Common Question
Q: Should I explain ADHD to my child’s siblings?
A: Yes — understanding the condition helps siblings make sense of disruptive behaviour and respond with compassion rather than frustration.

4. Celebrate Individual Strengths

Acknowledging what makes each child unique helps prevent comparison and boosts self-esteem. Celebrate personal milestones, character strengths, and kindness.

Tip: Praise your child’s efforts, not just achievements—especially in areas like creativity, patience, or cooperation.

5. Avoid Placing Adult Expectations on Siblings

Siblings should never feel responsible for managing their ADHD sibling’s behaviour. Let them be kids.

Tip: Keep responsibilities age-appropriate and avoid turning siblings into caregivers or peacekeepers.

Final Thoughts

Raising a child with ADHD brings unique challenges—but supporting the rest of the family matters just as much. With intentional communication, fair routines, and regular connection, siblings can grow in confidence, empathy, and resilience.

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